For the most part, it’s good to adhere to the old lesson “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover.”

In addition (this goes more for kids), but it’s a good idea that you “Don’t talk to strangers.”

But what happens when there’s a direct conflict between these two philosophies?

In Home Alone, Kevin McAllister is initially frightened by his creepy old neighbor, but eventually realizes that the old man has a heart of gold.

Please.  Life is all about choices, and the smart choice should be to avoid the creepy old man.  Sure, the old man might actually turn out to be nice too in real life, — but one has to weigh risk vs. reward.

In other words, “Don’t talk to strangers” supersedes “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover” —— especially for kids trying to avoid potential child molesters.